November 22, 2005
ANNIVERSARY
A couple weeks ago I made a note to send my parents an anniversary card. Then I did the mental math and realized that this was their 30th. Yikes, I had to do better than a card! Anyway, I hope you two like what we sent. Congrats on making it to 30, especially in this day and age. I love you...
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We loved your card and gifts. You put alot of thought into it. I didn't even know that the 30th was "pearl" and we love our silver and mother-of-pearl keyrings engraved with our names-"Mom" and "Dad". Dad put our keys on them, and now you'll know that I'm always thinking of you when I'm on the go! Dad retired the key ring I gave him when we were dating. That key ring lasted for thirty years, so here's hoping the new ones will be put to good use for another thirty years!!
Love you,
Mama
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Today the US military is offically
handing over FOB Danger to the Iraqis. That's a great step in getting Iraq on her own feet. I was struck by the last paragraph in the article:
It was a bittersweet year for the Big Red One, with more than 100 soldiers killed and 1,000 wounded but great advances in combined operations with new, better-led Iraqi army units and 2,000 reconstruction projects worth about $1 billion.
The emphasis is mine, because what struck me was how the Stars and Stripes gets the "but" right. Most journalists seem to flip the two clauses: some nice stuff is happening, but it's a quagmire and American deaths is the most important thing. Stars and Stripes gets the focus just right, as usual. 1ID had a rough year in Iraq, but they accomplished so much. It's the accomplishments we should be focused on -- what these soldiers and marines did with their lives -- not the death toll.
Good on you, Stars and Stripes.
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God, I laughed. I read the piece, and as soon as I finished the quoted part, I was all, like, "WTF? What news agency wrote this? This seems, dare I think it, positive?"
I clicked the link and laughed.
"Oh that's right. No MSM outlet would write this way. It made me feel good about Iraq."
Check out my most recent post in my resurrected blog for why I feel that way.
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November 21, 2005
INSPIRATIONAL
Apparently the American Film Institute is trying to pick the most inspirational film of all time. Good luck. The list of nominees is long, including movies that definitely belong (
Apollo 13,
Stand and Deliver) and some dubious choices as well (
Ferris Bueller's Day Off?
Moulin Rouge?)
John Hawkins has a good list of his own choices; I agree with most of his picks, especially
Spider-Man 2 and
Rocky. I'd add a few movies of my own that either bring me to tears or have me jumping out of my seat cheering:
12 Angry Men, From the Earth to the Moon, The Great Escape, To Kill a Mockingbird, Rudy, The Lord of the Rings, Miracle, Amistad and
Band of Brothers. In no particular order, all of which made the cut except for the HBO ones. Props to the AFI for including
The Karate Kid, which is one of my all-time favorites, even if it is a bit cheesy. (For the record, my husband said that he never laughed so hard as he did in
There's Something About Mary at the line "I guess I just wish they made movies like they used to make. You know, classics like
The Karate Kid" because he thought that was the dumbest thing he'd ever heard. But the joke's on him, because his paycheck bought the whole trilogy.)
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Posted by: Stephen Macklin at November 21, 2005 10:22 AM (UquFN)
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My all time favorite movie
LONESOME DOVE
I started crying before Gus died and continued crying throught the rest of the movie..
Posted by: Beth at November 21, 2005 11:54 AM (AeCM/)
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hands down bestest mostest inspirational ever:
Glory
can't be beat.
Posted by: MajMike at November 21, 2005 03:26 PM (zXWkt)
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Hands down Passion of the Christ and Saving Private Ryan.
Or really, any Spielberg movie'll work.
Posted by: John at November 21, 2005 04:22 PM (enIP4)
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MIRACLE--my most inspirational movie...and of course, the army wife in me loves "We were soldiers" although sometimes it hits a little too close to home. Good picks.
Posted by: Nicole at November 22, 2005 12:48 AM (KJBDI)
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I gotta go with Star Wars.
Posted by: Pericles at November 22, 2005 03:57 AM (eKf5G)
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Band of Brothers gets my vote. Though it's not a movie, it still brings out so much emotion EVERYTIME I watch it.
Posted by: Vonn at November 22, 2005 10:48 AM (dEgRi)
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PUPDATE
Today Charlie experienced his first snow. At first, he wouldn't even leave the sidewalk, but once I stepped into the snow and he saw that it would clump up and he could
eat it...well, it was on. He was having the greatest time, which was cute, but unfortunately it made forcing him to go to the bathroom nearly impossible. He had a blast romping around, and he's awful cute with a pile of snow on his nose.

I know I rag on Charlie a lot, but he's been getting much better. This past week has been surprisingly uneventful: he didn't eat anything he wasn't supposed to, save one more knitting needle (I'm just going to have to start putting my projects away while I'm not working on them.) He's been sleeping ten to eleven hours at night, and he no longer fusses in the morning to get out of his crate. He's also getting more attached to us and wants to follow us around the house rather than sneak off and chew on stuff. He keeps improving every day.
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SO SAD
One of my favorite bloggers disappears and resurfaces so often I can barely keep up with him. His blog-restarting ritual reminds me of the way the X-man Nightcrawler bamfs into thin air. Since this blogger teleports himself around the blogosphere and pops up where he's least expected, I can no longer keep up with the name of his blog or the name he's using for himself. From here on out, I'm calling him
Bamf. (Deal with it, dude.)
Bamf normally deals in humor alone, so I was surprised to find one of the saddest articles I've read in a long time: the excavation of priceless tokens found at a concentration camp:
A child's ring. Twisted reading glasses. A few gold coins: scraps of personal dignity, hurriedly buried in a last act of defiance to keep them from falling into Nazi hands. Israeli archaeologists helped by survivors are writing a new chapter in the terrible history of the German death camp at Majdanek, Poland, by excavating grounds long thought to be empty.
Their findings show how the doomed Jews furiously dug into the grassy ground with their hands to bury what personal possessions they had with them before they were murdered in the camp's gas chambers.
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The Screedblog's awesome today.
Lileks rips Vonnegut via
The Princess Bride. Priceless.
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Uh that line was NOT uttered by the giant (Fezik), it was said by the spaniard (Inigo Montoya), just one more example of why right wingers are not trusted. What a dipshit.
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November 20, 2005
HEH
I laughed into my pancakes this morning when my husband told me
Johnny Depp is disillusioned with France:
DEPP: 'I CAN'T STAY IN RIOT-RAVAGED FRANCE'
Hollywood star Johnny Depp is so shocked by the riots raging through France, he's considering abandoning his home in the country.
The FINDING NEVERLAND heart-throb moved to Europe when life in Los Angeles became too violent.
He has since divided time between the two continents - but he fears France will be scarred permanently by the current troubles.
He says, "It's insane, that setting cars on fire is the new strike.
"I went there (to France) to live because it seemed so simple.
"Now it's anything but. I don't know how they'll recover from this."
Hahahahahahaha. Newsflash: life isn't "simple" anywhere.
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BWAHAHAHAHAH!!!!
I have a red spot on my trou from where my ass is bleeding for the poor sap.
Posted by: Jim - PRS at November 20, 2005 11:00 AM (oowdc)
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Wasn't he one of them hollywood types that left the U.S. because we elected Bush and were going to hell in a hand basket? Wonder where he'll go next?
Posted by: Sgt Hook at November 20, 2005 12:18 PM (jlMVG)
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Irony is so fun, particularly in the morning, eh?
Maybe he can team up with Gwyneth and Madonna to find an alternative to England and France. Perhaps Antarctica? Pretty sure there is very little terrorism there.
Posted by: JCK at November 20, 2005 01:36 PM (J9ixV)
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Sgt Hook:
IIRC, it was less towards the President and more towards America in general. Something about us being like a big dumb puppy or similar.
So we're like Charlie, I guess.
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November 19, 2005
FED UP TOO
An excerpt from Cold Fury's
sweet rant on the disheartening damage President Clinton just did (a great post, by the way: read the whole thing):
The Marines and Army are involved in a couple slam bang fights as we speak, reducing a couple large pockets of Al Qaida fighters that have festered for a long time without intervention. Yet day after day, we hear nothing about where the fighting is going on, what’s really happening, who is being apprehended or killed, why the fight is in a particular place, what the strategic significance is, or how our young men and women are making us proud with their dedication to the mission and the country and their workaday, exceptional-is-the-new-ordinary heroism. Instead the only headline I ever see is “two Americans killed.” Or “five Americans killed.” Or “seven Americans injured in bombing.” Really? The only impression I get from the MSM is that the U.S. troops are basically lined up like metal ducks in a shooting gallery, being picked off one at a time without actually doing anything positive, not carrying out missions, whatever. I guess they are just wandering around in the ‘Raq, wearing do rags, listening to the Stones, smokin’ dope and waiting for their hitch to end.
It's such a Woman Thing to ask your husband "What are you thinking?" when he's quiet. (I know, I know, I've listened to Seinfeld, but it's hard not to ask.) More often than not these days, my husband's response is "Iraq". He's thinking about Iraq. Constantly. What he was doing this day last year, what he could've done better, how they could've f-ed up the bad guys a little more in this situation or that, and what he'll do differently the next time he goes. He thinks about it all the time -- about how he can be a more effective soldier, not how poor and miserable he was.
And at no point was he just walking around waiting to get killed or go home.
My husband takes his job seriously, and he took it extra-seriously while he was in Iraq. He put a couple of soldiers in jail for disobeying the rules, for pete's sake. He didn't sit around reading existentialist garbage and thinking about how, like, life has no meaning and war is not the answer. He's not a puppet, he's not a sitting duck, and he's not a mindless automaton under the control of the Bushitler Oil Junta. He's a man who helped the US Military take one more step towards winning the War on Terror.
So maybe, just once, he and the other brave men and women like him could get some good press for a change. Or some indication to the American public that they're winning this war. Is that too much to freaking ask?
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You know, I think the headlines about the number of our soldiers killed reflect the fact that the American public has a great concern for them and values their lives. No one who reads past the headlines would get the impressions that our troops are just sitting around. There was a great deal of reporting, for example, about our increased activity near the Syrian border. And within the last week I saw a report on CNN--the epitome of the "liberal media"---that our offensive there was showing results.
So many of the complaints about the "MSM" involve exactly the same mistake that the MSM is supposed to be guilty of---selective reporting. Cherrypick stories and headlines, and of course you can make the reporting seem incredibly skewed.
Posted by: Pericles at November 20, 2005 09:59 AM (eKf5G)
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Sarah,
Your husband is a Real Man who is just trying to be better than he was before. Real Americans know and expect this from him. The MSM are NOT Real Americans. And I'd venture to say, the foreign press wouldn't recognize Real Men even when they slapped them on the face.
Real Americans are proud of you, proud of your husband, intensely proud of Mrs. Sims and her husband's sacrifice, and just generally tickled pink with the way all of you have comported yourselves during this historic, but difficult time. Personally, I compare you all to the Rosie the Riveters, Private Ryan's of Normandy, and the heroes of WWII, male and female, who saved our country, and saved free civilization. You have all done so well when challenged and so bravely continued your duties when called.
While the press will never praise you, Real Americans know you. They love and admire you. Your blogging has significantly improved the number of folks who realize what a national treasure folks like you and your husband are.
It is never easy to live with Real Men. But then, you knew that already, didn't you? Now the rest of us know it too. And we've seen what Real Women are made of as well.
God Bless You all, dear. Don't get discouraged. We are behind you and we want to you be safe and successful. Press on.
Subsunk
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QUICK LINKS
Interesting article on what happened to Iraq's WMDs:
Where the WMDs Went
And an article whose name says it all:
I took Saddam's cash, admits French envoy
UPDATE:
Read SGT Rausch's letter to Hook: Taste of Freedom
The Real Pro-War Crowd: Who They Are and What They Want (Chaos, Anarchy and Death)
And the Western media ran with a completely despicable fakery, once again: McCarthyism 101
And a good quote on a worthwhile Donald Sensing post:
I stand by every word, including what I wrote about WMDs. Why? Because itÂ’s worth remembering that the only reason we have certainty now about SaddamÂ’s WMD programs is because we invaded Iraq.
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Of course, if Tierney is right then the Bush/Rumsfeld Administration is entirely incompetent. If his drug analogy really holds up, then Bush's role in the story is that of the bumbling police chief. If the rationale for the war was to keep WMDs out of the hands of the bad guys, and now they are safe in Syria, then we utterly failed to accomplish our objective.
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November 17, 2005
ANTI-IDIOTARIAKNITS
I joined an elite new webring that I'm really excited about:

I guess that means I need more knitting content on my blog. So for the "knits" end of the deal, here's the sweater I finished yesterday:

And for the "anti-idiotaria" side, read Cold Fury's post on lies (via Hud).
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If it were Elite all members would have to swear on their Addis they would avoid petro yarn like the plague.. Nice knit you got there btw. What pattern/yarn did you use? Cool Read link " To actually lie, one must first have a solid knowledge of the truth. " Ain't that the truth.
Posted by: zib at November 17, 2005 06:00 PM (Kd7EW)
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I like it. It makes me wish I were still knitting.
I love that color.
I am going to finish knitting some cotton dishcloths. That's what us old folks do! ;>)
Posted by: Ruth H at November 17, 2005 07:47 PM (VXGpH)
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Hi Sarah...I found your blog through Heidi's blog and I have to say, it's great! I admire you...enough patience to knit? Not me. I hope you're enjoying Germany...my husband and I just returned from a 3-year tour. Enjoy the people and the scenery...they are one of a kind.
Posted by: Nicole at November 18, 2005 12:34 PM (KJBDI)
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That sweater gives me an idea for a Christmas gift for the lovely and talented and downright sexy Mrs. Hook, how much?
Posted by: Sgt Hook at November 19, 2005 04:36 AM (jlMVG)
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Um, however much you want to give?
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Sorry, thought I was on ebay there for a minute.
Posted by: Sgt Hook at November 19, 2005 11:32 AM (jlMVG)
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I love it!!! Just beautiful! My mom just knit LE a coat that's on display in her shop - it's for next winter. But she said the first one... turned out poooooorly!
Posted by: Lane (from Peoria) at November 29, 2005 12:46 AM (CvKT0)
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November 16, 2005
FAREWELL, RED6
Yesterday we said good-bye to
Red6. Today he moved on to his next duty station, where he will try to get back to Iraq as fast as he can. His wife deploys next week, and he's hoping to end up with her downrange. I'm so glad that he gets to finally be with his wife, but I'm terribly sad to see him go.
I still remember the first time I met him. My husband came home one night at OBC and asked if he could invite someone over to dinner. Since my husband does not make friends lightly, I knew this guy must be someone special. As they sat and cracked up together over The Simpsons, I knew they were going to be friends.
We moved here to Germany while Red6 was still at Ranger school. Once my husband realized that this duty station was pretty good for a 12A, he called Red6 and suggested he try to get switched to come here. A day later it was done, and Red6 was on his way. He showed up while the unit was at gunnery, so I helped him get settled while the husband was in the field.
My husband's company had a strange mission in Iraq, so for the first six months of his deployment, he didn't even have a "home base": they bounced from FOB to FOB to Najaf and back. But Red6 was stationary, and since he had an internet connection in his room, he really helped me through the deployment while my husband was out of communication. We'd chat about TV and tell our spouses' embarrassing college stories and other silly nonsense. We'd try to work as many Futurama references into our conversations as possible. He was a lifesaver for me when I had no way of hearing from my husband, and I am so grateful that he was such a good friend to me.
I'm really going to miss listening to my husband and Red6 talk shop at the dinner table. Most people might find that really boring, but that's how I've learned most of my information about the Army and deployment: I loved being a fly on the wall while they talked about things that either pumped them up or burned them up. The two of them seemed to agree on most things -- the good and bad about the Army and armor and Iraq -- and they just got along so well. We're really going to miss him.
I know we're going to keep in touch, but I hope we run into each other again someday. I'm glad that he and his wife are finally together again, and I hope they kick butt together in Iraq.
So long, Red6.
I have to say goodbye now. There ain't no turtles where daddy's a-going...
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JONESING
I'm starting to feel the itch.
When I lived in France for a year, I would dream about it. I'd wake up salivating and immediately wish I were asleep again. When my friend moved home a few weeks before I did, she mailed me photos of it just to taunt me. And since our local franchise closed this summer, the desire has only grown stronger. It's only a matter of time before I'm dreaming of it again.
Hello, my name is Sarah. (Hi, Sarah.) It's been 139 days since my last Taco Bell...
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Hey Sarah...maybe its a craving and you are going to join the rest of the street...
Posted by: Stephanie at November 16, 2005 08:35 AM (MOoZ+)
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Taco Bell is a totally normal craving, not only for the pregnant...and what do you mean, you will start dreaming about it soon...you already did...can you remember Chinook and Taco Bell? If it gets really really bad you can always go up to Leighton...;-)...lol...oh, that reminds me, I was reading some post recently about Marines in Iraq...um, I believe it was Kevin Site's blog...and he mentions a marine in Fallujah who was craving a cheesey crunchy gordita...Taco Bell craving is universal...
Posted by: CaliValleyGirl at November 16, 2005 09:20 AM (fXHRY)
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Sarah,
My son is a Taco Bueno freak. He craved burritos,so when he was deployed to Baghdad I would send care packages with things wrapped in the burrito wrappers. I put a note in that said,
" Just a little something for you to look forward to" The very first thing he did when he returned home was go to Taco Bueno.
Posted by: Beth at November 16, 2005 10:31 AM (AeCM/)
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Mmm...I had Taco Bell just yesterday.
Posted by: Jason at November 16, 2005 12:47 PM (565iX)
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LOL!! I'm right there with you. My man laughs at me all the time because it seems that's all I want to eat. He likes to cook and all I want is TB. Poor guy...
Posted by: Rachel at November 17, 2005 06:14 PM (xIUI+)
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FYI,I don't know which base you are at, so it might be a little far away, but we have a Taco Bell here at Spangdahlem AB. (It's located in the bowling alley.) Also, if I remember right when I used to visit my folks in the Frankfurt area, we'd eat at one in the gas station on the part of the base where the Commissary is on Hanau. You probably already know that, but I thought I'd mention it just in case.
Posted by: Crystal at November 22, 2005 04:44 AM (6krEN)
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Want to take a road trip to Wuerzburg for some shopping and TB?
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November 15, 2005
TODAY'S LINKS
Some good posts on RWN:
The Bush Counter-Offensive Continues
How Many Other Mary Mapes Are Working In The Mainstream Media?
From Varifrank:
The J. Patrick Buchanan Memorial Library for Failed Prophets of Doom
(The husband remarked the other day at dinner: "What ever happened to acid rain?" Remember how that was drilled into our heads 20 years ago?)
Also, it's funny how whenever we talk about a "war for oil", someone always brings up the image of the SUV. Oil is used for other things, you know, as our commissaries are realizing. Personally, this is just fine with me; I always thought my local baggers went way overboard with the double-bagging anyway. Two boxes of cereal don't need to be double-bagged.
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Why on earth do you go to places like Right Wing News? You really should be ashamed. It is pure propaganda - as worthless as socialist workers weekly, democratic underground, and their ilk. Eew, you need to get some better taste in sources of news.
Really, RWN doesn't care about the truth, they care about firing off propaganda to support their views. What they say doesn't matter so much as the effect of supporting their side, and whether their side is right or not, they don't care. Do you really care more about your 'team' than the truth?
WRT to the Mary Mapes interview, it was very carefully taken out of the greater context, which was that the secretary who had written the originals has said that while she did not believe that the documents were originals, that there was nothing in them that was not fully in the spirit if not the words of the commander. In other words, the content was still representative of the situation.
WRT to Bush's speeh on veteran's day, when did it become appropriate for the Commander-in-Chief to go to military installation before a military crowd and denounce the opposition party? And why did he deem it appropriate to take the opportuinity to give a vets day speech that essentially ignored vets? Sometimes it's like we are in a banana republic. It is not too surprising that public approval for that shameful speech was lower than his general approval ratings.
On a separate note, the reason that acid rain is under control now is thanks to government regulations that lowered levels of sulphur dioxide emissions into the air, especially from power plants. It is still a problem, as a quick google would show, but thanks to regulation it is not as serious a problem as it would have been. In other words, by getting the message out that sulphur dioxide was creating acid rain, which was a problem, something was done, and now things are not as bad as they would have been without regulation.
Posted by: Sad at November 15, 2005 12:54 PM (ur+Lr)
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Jesus does that Mapes comment sound like "fake but accurate" or what? One last time people. TIMES NEW ROMAN!! PROPORTIONAL SPACING!!! SUPERSCRIPT!!!
You just accused the author of only listening to what she wants to hear and not getting news from an unbiased source and then had the nerve to whip out that Mapes comment. People that still defend that woman have a grip on reality that is on par with holocaust deniers and the flat earth society.
WRT to the Banana republic, Central American dictators don't give speeches denouncing the opposition party. They kill them and burn down their houses. Last time I checked, Harry Reid is fine and so is his house. The Bush is evil exaggerations are so common now that we don't get shocked or surprised by them.
You're right, Sad. Shame on the author. Shame on all of us for letting people like you get away with such irresponsible comments.
Posted by: Joe D. at November 15, 2005 02:06 PM (FmIVz)
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Joe,
Take it easy. WRT Mapes, here's the bottom line. The documents were not the only evidence in the story. The author of the originals stated that the documents' content was an accurate reflection.
So, yes, the docs were not a valid source. But the story was still valid, since witnesses corroborated the evidence presented in them.
If you think that this is akin to flat earth, well, clearly we do not have enough of a starting point to have a discussion, since it appears you are more concerned with your feelings than facts.
WRT Banana Republic comparisons, no analogy is perfect, the comparison was in these respects. Despite his own lack of history as a soldier, Bush has repeatedly strutted in a military uniform, and in that speech to denouncing his political opponents in a speech that should have honored soldiers. There, of course, are many respects in which the U.S. is not like a Banana republic, for instance, the U.S. is not in Central or South America, our primary export is not Babanas etc. This might be confusing to you, but it is the nature of analogies that when comparing two different things, that there will be likenesses and unlikenesses between the things compared. They are, after all, different. Perhaps you might want to read up on the nature of analogies, similes, metaphors, etc. so that this might be more clear to you.
Posted by: Sad at November 15, 2005 04:15 PM (PbrmL)
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Oooh you zinged me! I'll get a grammar text book and I'll show you up on some minor league blog comment section yet!!! You just wait.
By the way, who are these alleged sources? Killian, who supposedly wrote it has been dead for years. Seriously, this debate is a year old. If there were any shred of truth in this story the premier newsman in the country wouldn't have had to resign in shame.
Or was it a plot by Les Moonves at CBS to help corporate America and Bush stay on top? Off to the Democratic underground for some ranting!! Ha! Ha!
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November 13, 2005
13 NOV 2004
The events that happened
one year ago today have changed my life. I know it sounds ridiculous and crass to say that, since it was my friend who lost her husband and not I, but I have never been the same. And though I didn't lose someone I love, I watched someone I love lose her husband, and I've watched her learning to live all over again for the past year.
I'm horrified that the reason we've become friends is because she lost her husband. I hate that this is so. I hate that I feel pressured to find more to talk about with her than just Fallujah and Cindy Sheehan. I hope we'll get there someday, because I've really grown to like her. I just hate the way we became friends.
Thursday night, Red6 came over for dinner. We had a little moment of silence remembering CSM Faulkenburg, which started a discussion of Fallujah. My husband was originally supposed to go instead of Red6. My husband had orders in hand for 24 hours, but then the Powers That Be decided two trips to Najaf was enough for one company, and they sent Red6 instead. If you've read Red6's blog, you know they made a good choice, and that's how my husband ended up on R&R instead of in Fallujah.
Our lives hang by a thread.
What my friendship with Heidi has taught me is to never take my husband for granted. We hug each other a little more often. We end our bickering a little more quickly. And we talk about death a lot more frequently. We've learned to dismiss any and all "hardships" that come our way, because it could always be a lot worse. I've learned to cherish life, more than I ever did before. I hate that it took a good man's death to teach me such a lesson, but I'm grateful for the lesson nonetheless.
I tell everyone over and over again how humbled I am to be Heidi's friend. She was the first person I thought of when I woke up today, and I can't even begin to tell her how sorry I am.
She has worried about how history will regard her husband's sacrifice: will it have been worth his life? I think history will show that her husband gave his life to preserve freedom and that it was indeed worth it. And I hope for the same future that Bill Whittle does:
Despite all the switches in the rail yard, there is a flow and a direction to history that cannot and will not be denied.
It is the slow, uneven, grasping climb toward freedom. There are markers on Little Round Top, on the beaches at Normandy, and in the sands of Nasiriyah that show us where men have fought and laid down their lives, and willingly left their wives without husbands and their children without fathers, all for this idea. It is an idea bigger than they are, bigger than self-centered movie stars, bigger than cynical and bitter journalists, bigger than Presidents and Dictators, bigger, in fact, than all human failure and miscalculation.
It is the idea that people – all people – deserve to live their lives in freedom. Free from fear. Free from want. Free from despair and hatred.
My country has, again, taken up that banner, and the behavior of our young men and women under unimaginable stress and provocation has filled me with fierce and unremitting pride. We fight, nearly alone, alongside old and true friends, British and Australian, themselves decent and honorable people, long champions of freedom who have their own Waterloos and Gallipolis and cemeteries marked with fields of red poppies, rolls of sacrifice and honor that should fill all American hearts with pride. For friends like this are worth having, and I will always prefer the company of one or two solid, dependable friends over legions of fashionable and trendy and unreliable ones.
And someday, centuries from now, in the world we all hope for but which only a few will fight for, all of this death and destruction will be gone. All that will be left will be small markers in green fields that were once deserts, places where Iraqi families may walk someday with the same taken-for-granted sense of happiness and security I had in Pennsylvania and Virginia.
And perhaps they will read the strange-sounding names, and try to imagine a time when it was all in doubt.
Heidi can hold her head high, knowing that someday Iraqi children will read this name and be grateful. I am grateful already.

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Don't forget to add Bunker Hill to that list of signature battle-sites. Our military is older than the nation it serves because it was our military that fought, bled and died to make America a free nation.
Posted by: Eric at November 13, 2005 10:50 AM (dkUKh)
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Sarah,
Thank you for such an eloquent post. It made me shed some tears for Heidi and all those who have lost their husbands and fathers. We do take life for granted so much of the time, but as one grows older and experiences more, one begins to realize the real priorities and sacrifices in life. With your blog, Sarah, if you can make a difference in even one person's life, you have succeeded. I hope you continue to blog for a very long time. I love you so much and am thankful God has blessed me with such a wonderful daughter. I thought of Heidi yesterday, and my prayers are with her and Colin at this time. God bless all of those who have paid the price for our freedom.
Love, Mama
Posted by: Nancy at November 13, 2005 11:14 AM (Z+RCN)
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Sarah,
That is so well said. It made me angry in the Vietnam era when the troops were treated so badly and they fought and died for the same freedoms. Million died because we pulled out then and the troops were not welcomed when they came home, that is the stain on our history, not the war, but how ugly the troops were treated. God bless them all.
Ruth
Posted by: Ruth H at November 13, 2005 12:33 PM (9IP1F)
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Okay, so I have started reading this but I am crying too much to finish . . . will have to give me a day or two to read the entire post . . .
Posted by: Heidi at November 13, 2005 10:59 PM (gMjwx)
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Growth, maturity, wisdom....all come at a cost. Sometimes the cost is high. God bless.
Posted by: Pamela at November 14, 2005 01:43 PM (JZD9n)
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Sarah,
Great posting, as usual. But one thing to note, however, is that the majority of this country is not committed to sacrificing their sons and daughters to free people in distant lands. Haven't been for the past 30 years or so.
In theory, most would say yes, but when push comes to shove, we're not.
We have elections every two years, electing a new executive every four. Our policy in Iraq in February of 2007 could be "cut and run", if trends continue. The president may want to keep people there, but like in Vietnam, Congress needs only to cut off the money and today's defeated enemy can become tomorrows victor.
This nation is committed to our own freedom, I'm quite sure. But we are NOT committed to anyone else's. We probably should be, but barring a massive cultural revolution, we're not.
Posted by: Sean at November 14, 2005 07:26 PM (FRjNx)
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Heidi,
I have no words that are able to express what I feel in my heart so I'll just say Thank You and hope you know what it is I'm trying to convey.
Sarah,
thank you for an excellent post.
Posted by: Tink at November 15, 2005 04:59 PM (S6VXg)
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Thank you, Sarah. You could not have said it more perfectly.
It was hard to know what to say to someone you only in passing and a few Friday night dinners. My thoughts are with Heidi and Colin all the time. I am sending her this note through your post. I hope she reads it.
Posted by: Jennifer at November 16, 2005 01:14 PM (KyhUS)
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Ladies,
I thank you for loving the military men in your lives. I thank you for shouldering the burdens of a life so difficult in nature, so lonely in its lingering moments, so unappreciated by so many, yet so wonderful and delightful at its best. You deserve so much more than our country will ever give you. Your husbands must recognize how much you did for them and your families and how much they needed your support.
And for Mrs. Sims, you must recognize that what you have lost can never be replaced by your country, but in its place, please accept our undying affection and love for you and his children, as befits a brave man who served his country and was lost to her and to you.
We will never be able to adequately explain how much we needed your husband. In fact we needed him so much, that we had to take him from you, not on our design, but because of his choice to offer himself to us. I pray the Lord will ease your grief in time, and bring you happiness and solace once again, as soon as you can bear it. America is grateful, even when you don't hear it from the public voices of the press.
God bless you both, ladies, and all the ladies who choose to marry a warrior, for better or worse. For surely, there is no one who deserves the Love and Honors of America than one who has given her best Love to her country's service and survival. Thank you, both.
We shall honor them all. Press on to Victory.
Subsunk
Posted by: Subsunk at November 18, 2005 01:36 AM (SBriA)
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Wow.. I was just about to delete your blog from my links as I have no idea what it's doing there.. but I happened to see this picture.
Patrick went to my high school.. and my roommate as well as a great deal of my friends and teachers attended his funeral.
I am very sorry for Heidi's loss. I know that there are a great deal of people who miss him. I have heard nothing but amazing things about him.. and how it never should have been him. He was too good of a guy to go and we needed him here desperately.
It's a small world in the military. You never know who you'll come across or meet. I didn't know Sean, but I know that SAHSians everywhere were notified of his death and that there was an outpouring of sympathy, sadness, and condolences. I couldn't attend as I had my own training, but I did take an hour to honor him on the day of his funeral.
We never take it likely when a miltary dependant school kid makes the ultimate sacrifice for their country. There aren't words enough... Just know that there were thousands of Sahsians praying for you and your family Heidi... and he is still thought of today.. by those who adored him.
Sincerely,
Phoenix
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November 11, 2005
THE VETERANS IN MY FAMILY
This post is a tribute to the veterans in my family. I'm proud that I've got four generations of heroes here.

my great-great uncle on my paternal grandfather's side, in the Army in WWI

my great-great uncle on my paternal grandmother's side, in the Army in WWI

my paternal grandfather, in the Army Air Corps in WWII

my great uncle, my grandfather's brother, also in the Army Air Corps in WWII

my father's brother, in the Air Force

another of my father's brothers, in the Army

my father-in-law, in the Army

my husband's brother, in 1ID during OIF II

and the husband, in 1ID during OIF II
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A handsome group of men Sarah. Thank You to them and to all who served/serve our country.
Posted by: Mary Ann at November 11, 2005 09:10 AM (ssGwL)
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Sarah,
That was a really nice post. You've got a great-great uncle, Max Addington, who served in the army in WWI. I have letters that he wrote to my dad, your grandfather and a little boy at the time, from the battlefield in Germany. Your grandfather, Carl Addington, was not able to serve because he had a bad heart from rheumatic fever (no antibiotics at the time). He was very active on the homefront raising war bonds. I have a scrapbook with all the newspaper articles about his war efforts. Thanks for doing this on Veteran's Day.
Love, Mama
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Yeah, all the photos I have are from Dad's side of the family...
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Warrior Caste, and some really nice smiles.
Kalroy
Posted by: Kalroy at November 15, 2005 12:18 PM (9RG5y)
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Wow, that's quite a line of heretige you have there. You dad, grandfather sure do look a lot alike. I bet you are really proud of them. I'm glad they served.
Posted by: Lucy Stern at November 15, 2005 07:13 PM (dz3wA)
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THANK YOU
Two years ago, I thanked veterans I did not know.
Last year everyone I knew became a veteran. This year it just seems a little hollow for me to keep repeating how proud I am of all of the brave men and women who do the fighting for me.
So this year I'll let the Kurds thank you for me. Their words carry much more weight than mine do.
(Thanks for the video link go to Tim, one half of a pair of great veterans.)
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Way to go!!! Thanks for keeping things like this going. It's so easy to just forget about it (I know I do) I'm glad (and Proud)you're around remembering for us all.
Thanks again - Boy did I really look that young once!
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November 10, 2005
LINKS
Podhoretz's
Who Is Lying About Iraq? is the last nail in the coffin: Bush did not lie.
Tim sent me a
reminder of French lectures to the US.
And Lara sent me a hilarious parody:
President is sending Marines to France.
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That Podhoretz article was such an amazing act of mendacity it was actually funny. The Pollack article he cites, if read in full context actually is calling Bush a liar - hardly a reasonable source to cite to prove Bush was being honest. I think that the only thing that can be safely shown from that article it is that Podhoretz is lying about Iraq. It certainly doesn't show Bush didn't lie. The fact that he had to so carefully ignore so many facts, and then selectively quote and cite things that actually said the opposite of what he said really makes a case for there being no way to make a case that Bush didn't lie, which shows there is a high probablity Bush was deliberately lying.
Podhoretz himswelf has a very shameful history of deceptive writing, and extremist views, he is hardly one I would cite for anything other than humor. In Norman Podhoretz's world, everything is very simple. There are only two positions to take: uncritical praise of and obeisance toward the Bush administration, which places you on the side of all things good and virtuous, or you hate both the truth and America. I guess it is unsurprising that he can write so dishonestly - after all his outright lies are his way of defending Truth, Justice, and the American way.
Posted by: Mr. Silly at November 12, 2005 08:37 PM (nsQdz)
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JOURNALISTS
The
article about Mary Mapes' new book was almost a waste of time. I followed the Rathergate hullabaloo closely last year: those documents are ridiculous fakes and Rather & Mapes were reckless in rushing them to press. The article was all about poor little Mary and how unfairly she was treated. And as the violins began to fade, the last line in the article made me sneer.
Despite her career implosion, Mapes hopes to stay in journalism. "It's what I'm good at," she said. "I like making a difference."
Newsflash: Journalists aren't supposed to make a difference. They're supposed to report the freaking news, just the way it is. They're supposed to find facts and report the Five W's and that's it: give us the facts and let us make the inferences. They don't make a difference, they don't speak truth to power, and they don't create the news.
Or at least they're not supposed to.
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Have you noticed that if you ask a class of journalism students why they want to be a journalist they all say "I want to make a difference?" For a while everyone in high school wanted to be a marine scientist, a la Cousteau, now they all want to be forensic scientist. I wonder what the next fad will be.
Posted by: Ruth H at November 10, 2005 08:55 PM (s9RMb)
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The documents were fakes, and it was shoddy reporting. Someone certainly deserved to be fired over it. What was lost in the short over the documents, though, was the substantive truth of the story itself---for which the documents were only one piece of evidence. The TANG unit's former secretary said she knew right away that the dcuments were fake, because the commanding officer would never have put such comments in writing. She also said, though, that they captured exactly what he said about Bush verbally.
Posted by: Pericles at November 13, 2005 12:15 AM (eKf5G)
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exactly! they're not supposed to create news, just report it.
gawd i hate journalists.
Posted by: annika at November 19, 2005 02:02 PM (WEXZ1)
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OOPS
The worst part about a promotion is forgetting the little things. This morning my husband woke me up at 0530: "Can you please sew rank on my kevlar cover?"
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What the hell does Russ need his Kevlar for? I thought that was the whole point of finance?
Posted by: JSC at November 11, 2005 09:53 PM (S4PKr)
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November 09, 2005
PUPDATE
Things Charlie has eaten recently:
a #2 pencil
a Simpsons calendar
another knitting needle, this one wooden
the cover letter to my life insurance policy (whew, only the first page)
the handle of his hairbrush
the handle of his rubbermaid toy box
a chapstick
four coasters
the cordless telephone
And as I was typing this, I realized he was eating a linguistics book.
If you look at a Tibetan terrier from the profile, you can clearly see that his back legs are much longer than his front; Charlie is built like a dune buggy. That gives them great jumping abilities, since their legs are like a kangaroo or a rabbit. I began to get nervous about Charlie's jumping when I first saw him jump from a standstill onto our bed (3 ft). Two weekends ago I was downstairs mopping and the husband was watching Charlie upstairs; he jumped over the baby gate at the top of the stairs to get to me. But last week he wowed us all when a 25 lb dog jumped onto our dining room table to get to Red 6's fries.
This dog will be the death of me.

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Sarah you need to be very careful to watch and make sure he doesn't chew on any electrical cords. I gave my sister a yorkie pup one time and she chewed into the lamp cord and it killed her.
Posted by: Beth at November 09, 2005 11:17 AM (AeCM/)
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Puppies are hard...but isn't he just the cutest little guy I've ever seen. Someday, soon, you will be wondering how you ever lived without him.
Posted by: Carla at November 09, 2005 11:54 AM (v2cBD)
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BUT....he's soooooo cute!
Posted by: Vonn at November 09, 2005 12:30 PM (dEgRi)
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Pictures are cute. As for real puppies ... what have I learned from reading this series of posts?
Sarah, what was the linguistics book that Charlie was eating?
Posted by: Amritas at November 09, 2005 03:22 PM (+nV09)
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I have only one thing to say: kennel training
Without it, we wouldn't have a house to live in!
Posted by: Mrs. Smash at November 09, 2005 06:19 PM (VSQ54)
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Amritas -- I used the word "book" liberally: it was one of those spiralbound course packets.
Mrs. Smash -- The sad thing is that I
do crate train! These are all things he's gotten while I turn my back for a second or use the bathroom. He sleeps and stays in his crate about 15 hours per day!!!
Posted by: Sarah at November 10, 2005 04:29 AM (VOV6s)
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